w a i t i n g :) [PART 2!]

i recently talked to someone about waiting. it's good to talk to someone else para yung idea, hindi lang confined satin. and i thank him for opening up the topic (dahil nagkaroon ako ng idea ng pwedeng i-blog!).


first things first. yes, i am waiting. waiting for someone. and yes, i do have an image in my mind of who am i waiting for. pero dahil pabago-bago ang isip ko, minsan, nawawala yung image na yun. recently, muntik na kong umayaw. when i say muntik, hindi sya natuloy. unang-una, dahil may dugo ata ng Gomburzang nananalaytay sa dugo ko (kung hindi nyo na-gets yung joke na yun, i suggest you go back in elementary at mag-aral ulit ng history!) pangalawa, i was mistaken sa nalaman ko about You-Know-Who. (blame it to my pagiging pakialamera and pagiging judgemental)


in my mind, dahil babae ako, i should be the one waiting. i should wait for guys to make "the move". and dahil dalagang pilipina ako (chos lang!), ayan ang ginagawa ko ngayon. maghintay. what do i think of girls who make the first move you may ask? i find them revolting. and making the first move makes them less of a woman. and ang feeling ko pa, yung mga lalaki, napipilitan lang sila dahil syempre, ikaw ba naman ang lalaki tapos babae na ang lumapit sayo, aayaw ka pa ba? ampogi mo naman kung ganun! and that's exactly why i don't want to make the first move. i'm afraid of "napilitan lang kasi" situation.


but i was very wrong.


from the beginning, Adam was the one who waited for Eve. meaning, hindi lang tayong mga girls ang naghihintay! even guys wait! i don't know what are they waiting for but one thing is for certain, THEY ARE WAITING. may it be graduation, work or simply the right time, they are definitely waiting for the time to make "the move". 


you are probably thinking, "e pano kapag naiinip na ko?" the answer is simple: mainip is a part and always be a part of waiting. and that makes us wait longer. pag nainip ka, it simply means na you're not ready for it. you're not mature enough to handle it. yung paghihintay nga hindi mo magawa ng maayos. e what more kung nandyan na yung hinihintay mo? disaster. 


guys and girls, take your time. wag mainip. prepare yourself in the meantime. don't rush into a relationship. if you do, your relationship will rush to an end. have faith to the one you are waiting for☺


i came across this and i wanted to share this to you:

yan na ah. girls, do you want to be considered as rotten apples? yikes diba? and guys, make sure na you build the strongest and most efficient ladder to pick out the best apple. i mean girl. haha! (feeling ako. porket apple ang name ko. harhar :)) )


if you want to read my other post about waiting, here's the link: God's love story for me and w a i t i n g :)




P.S. credits to the one i talked to. you know who you are(but i doubt na mababasa mo to! haha!). thank you for sharing your thoughts about waiting :) God bless you and your future girlfriend! she is waiting for you right now as you are waiting for her ;) wag mainip. hehe :p